Most Americans make New Years resolutions, and most break them. I never have for that reason. I’ve always felt that if I made one I’d just turn around and break it. However, this New Years I did make a resolution for the first time ever and that resolution was to do something that would make a difference for my country.
On January 2nd, 2008, I met BJ Lawson.
I arrived at BJ’s house at around 8 o’clock. I had never met BJ in person before, much less been to his home, but I knew exactly which house was his from the cars already gathered in the driveway.
A few days earlier I had e-mailed BJ after finding out he was running with a simple message: “if there’s anything I can do to help let me know.” He had promptly e-mailed me back with an invite to come to his house to meet with him and others tonight. I pulled into his driveway and walked towards the door.
I rang the door bell and BJ answered. I shook his hand and introduced myself and he invited me inside, immediately offering me something to drink. I took him up on his offer and poured myself a cup of coffee before walking around the living room to introduce myself to everyone, with BJ’s assistance.
Three things I realized within five minutes of being there:
1. I’d never felt more welcome in someone’s home in my entire life.
2. There was no television downstairs. Lots of books, and a couple Macintosh computers, but no television.
3. All of these people were patriots.
In a day and age when apathy runs rampant, being in a room with so many freedom-loving people who so deeply care about their country and are willing to fight for it filled me with so much hope.
In some cases they were literally willing to fight for it such as in the case of Victor, an Iraq war veteran. In other cases they were people who had been fighting for decades for their country by being politically and socially active such as Howard, who among other things was a big Goldwater supporter in the ’60s.
There were people from BJ’s company, MercuryMD, who helped him create jobs for Americans. There was Chinnapan, a talented graphic designer and Indian-American who spoke of his travels to India and how America is viewed by the rest of the world. He explained how in India the U.S. dollar has always been so highly regarded and how fast that’s changing due to how weak our dollar is getting as a consequence of our flawed monetary policy.
But, more than anyone else the person I was most impressed by was BJ. I remember thinking “here’s the kind of person I need to strive to be.” At just 33 years of age BJ has already accomplished a lot. He has a fantastic family, and if you’ve ever doubted the old saying that “behind every great man, there is a great woman” you need to meet BJ’s wife JoLynn. He has a beautiful home, is a Duke alumnus, has a background in engineering and medicine and has been an entrepreneur having started his own company.
He’s also just an all around great person. Friendly, warm, charismatic, smart and patriotic. He truly loves his country and he’s willing to fight for it.
BJ Lawson is not a politician and that’s a good thing. He’s a real person with real concerns about our country. He’s a statesman and a real Republican. That’s exactly the kind of person we need representing North Carolina’s Fourth District.
It can happen, too, because he can beat David Price… and with everyone giving their all for liberty he will. When I walked into his home I walked in with the highest hopes but still with the thought burning in the back of my mind “I don’t know if he can beat David Price.” When I walked out all I could think was “He’s going to do this. He’s going to beat David Price.”
As I stepped out the door into the cold that night and walked to my car, after saying my “goodbyes” to BJ and all of the other patriots I had met that night, I was filled with a warmth inside (which is also my excuse for forgetting my coat). I held my head high and walked to my car with a smile on my face and a new found optimism. Filled with hope for my country I was already so proud to be part of this and so ready to start the fight for change the next day.
When I got home, after what may have been the best drive home I’ve taken in my life, I slipped into bed. My last thought before I fell asleep, thinking about my New Years resolution, was “this year we make a difference. It starts tomorrow and it’ll only be the beginning.”
That night I slept better than I had in months.